Notes: Surah Mumtahanah

 
The Quran, as our divine guide, provides comprehensive solutions for addressing our affairs, particularly the unique challenges women face throughout their lives. While acknowledging that women were created from man’s rib, it highlights the deep bond between men and women, as well as the significant role men play in a woman’s life and vice versa. But also in this context, whether we acknowledge it or not, a woman is often reliant on a male figure in the broad picture of her life, such as her father, brother, uncle, or son, etc. The Quran outlines the rights and protections due to women, recognizing the specific challenges they have faced across generations, often resulting from societal misconduct. However, we often distract ourselves by questioning the fairness of these rights in the Quran, missing the deeper point: Allah (swt) entrusted us to uphold the truth, not to selectively follow His guidance.

The Quran clarifies that our faith, trust, and devotion to Allah (swt) are sufficient to elevate our position in His sight. In Surah Al-Mumtahanah,  While the title "The Woman to Be Examined" might seem uncomfortable in a modern context, the message is far more profound than it appears at first glance. It serves a deeper meaning that reflects Allah's wisdom in recognizing the complexities of a woman's life, including the vulnerabilities that may challenge or undermine her faith.

Allah directly speaks to the circumstances women face in relation to their faith, whether it is strong or wavering. The varying levels of faith among women often result from the degree to which they expose themselves to falsehood or engage in activities that do not serve their spiritual needs. It clarifies that the challenges women face are not about men dominating them, but rather about the inner strength and dominance a woman can achieve through steadfast belief in Allah.

The opening verses focus on the importance of being cautious in forming close friendships, particularly with those whose values and beliefs might conflict with a Muslim’s faith. Allah (swt) acknowledges that as we move through life, our levels of faith vary, and the relationships we build can deeply affect our spiritual well-being. The instruction here is not to shun every non-believer or polytheist, but to be aware of those whose actions and words mock or belittle our beliefs. Being in close proximity to mockery, judgment, or intentional ridicule can erode a believer's confidence and faith, creating an environment ripe for spiritual bullying. This is why Allah warns us about maintaining these friendships if they jeopardize our faith.

The surah extends this wisdom by highlighting that not everyone is hostile towards believers, yet Allah warns that believers must stay mindful of relationships that may subtly or overtly promote disbelief or mockery. This is particularly important when societal norms, cultural influences, or even friendships challenge our commitment to Islam. In today's world, where information is constantly shared and its context often distorted as it is passed from person to person, we may fall into the trap of seeking approval in ways that don't benefit us. Establishing boundaries with wisdom and confidence serves as a safeguard, allowing believers to stay steadfast in their faith without yielding to outside pressures.

In verse 5 of Surah Mumtahanah, Allah (swt) offers a relatable dua:

"Our Lord, make us not [objects of] trial for the disbelievers and forgive us, our Lord. Indeed, it is You who is the Exalted in Might, the Wise."

This dua is a reminder that we do not need to constantly explain or justify our faith to those who may not understand or respect it. The guidance of Allah is sufficient for those who believe, and sometimes, the depth of this guidance can’t be fathomed, especially by those who mock or belittle it. 

At the heart of this surah lies the message of peace and reconciliation. Allah (swt) emphasizes that as long as there is no outright disrespect or hostility, believers should strive to be just and kind to others, even those who once mocked or misunderstood their faith. This is a powerful lesson in forgiveness and maintaining composure, showing that our faith is not about living in isolation but about understanding when relationships become harmful to our spiritual growth.

The examination of the believing woman in this surah is not about control or suppression but about ensuring that she is both supporting and supported in her faith, even when faced with difficult circumstances. Her pledge to tawhid represents her strength and dedication to living fairness, it becomes central, offering her both protection and a path forward in living fairly amidst the challenges she faces. 

The surah also elaborates the significance of spiritual balance in marriage and the potential conflicts that may arise from differing beliefs. It grants women the right to advocate for their well-being when their faith is genuine and sincere. Allah (swt) emphasizes that only He truly understands the state of one's belief, urging us to make decisions based on clear evidence rather than assumptions. If her faith is strong, she should be permitted to pursue what is best for her, especially if her current environment no longer nurtures her faith or well-being.

The response to her legitimate plea is found in verse 12, where Allah (swt) calls upon believing women to make a pledge that reinforces their faith. This pledge acknowledges the vulnerabilities that can challenge our beliefs and serves as a reminder that we are accountable not only for our actions but, more importantly, for our intentions. By making this commitment, she takes charge of her own narrative, rising above any negativity projected onto her. It empowers her to stand firm, trusting that her devotion to Allah will ultimately lead to justice and peace.

The Quran, and this surah in particular, highlight the importance of sincerity in faith and the responsibility we hold for both our actions and intentions. Allah (swt) acknowledges the challenges believers may face but provides guidance on how to remain steadfast through trust, accountability, and a genuine commitment to Him. This teaches us that true protection and well-being come from aligning our hearts with sincere devotion to Allah.